Friday, February 29, 2008
Leap Year
Perhaps I put up a poem here.
This is a special day
It brings lots of smiles and never any tears
Thousands of people all over the world
Wait for this day, including one special girl
Something special, mysterious, and new
Everyone else gets older in time
We stay forever young waiting for February 29
I hope you can see
How special "today" can be
Every four years we all celebrate
Because all of us February 29th
only comes every four years
Enjoy this special day.
Tuesday, February 26, 2008
The Story of Ah Kau
I received this meaningful story from a friend. I think it's a good idea to share with you.
Perhaps some of you may already know the concept and take this as reminder.... but for those who don't, take this as a new thing to ponder….
Ah Kau's story

'Apa macam Ah Kau ini hari? Bisnes ada baik?' the normal greeting like you do every day. Yes, Ah Kau doesn't speak English. He speaks Chinese and knows a little bit of Malay. He speaks a little bit of Malay but with a very thick Chinese accent.
'Biasa saja! ini bisnes aa, kadang kadang baik, kadang-kadang tada untung.''Biasalah hidup.
Kadang kadang ok, kadang kadang tak ok.' You give Ah Kau a pat on the back.
You smile and walk away and get into your car. You start the engine and start driving to your office, a multinational company located in a premier industrial area. You are a young and promising finance executive and the future looks bright for you. A year goes by and things look pretty good on the track. You decide to marry your fiance and have your new wife moves in to your place. Both of you feel happy because you can save more money as the two of you will be sharing one apartment and can live as one.
Ah Kau is still selling the newspaper as usual. Sometimes in the morning your wife gets the newspaper from Ah Kau instead of you. A year later a child comes along, and you decide to buy and move into a newly developed condominium just across the street. This place is bigger so it will be perfectly fit for the 3 of you. But since both of you are working, you decide to get a maid to take of the household and your kid.
By this time you're offered a managerial job from another multinational; the remuneration package offered is much better in terms of the pay, contractual bonus, medical benefits, SOCSO scheme and a few others which make it mpossible for you to decline. So you join this company happily. You get busier. You realize that you spend less and less time with your family.
When your department is busy preparing for the next audit, your working hours become more and more ridiculous. Any internal issues arising in the office means you'll be stuck in the office until 8 or 9 pm. Sometimes, during the weekend, you'll spend your time in your office, buried under paper works and documentation's, instead of taking your family for a walk in the park.
One morning, on your way to get your copy of The Star, you realized that Ah Kau is no longer in his stall. So is his rundown motorbike. Instead, there's another young Chinese guy at the stall. 'What happen to Ah Kau?' You ask out of curiosity. 'Oh, he is still around, but he is no longer taking care of this stall as he has opened up a new grocery shop down town. I am running this newspaper stall for him.''Ok.' you smile. You feel happy for Ah Kau. At last he manages to improve his life.Your normal life continues.


One day, the hardest reality of life hits you right on the face. The company that you've been working for years announces that they're moving their business to China for cost and competitive reason and has asked you to find a job somewhere else.
'What?' You scream out cold. 'I got a lot of liabilities on the card! Who's gonna pay for my mortgage? My car? My credit card? My gym fees? My bills?' You yell like there's no way out.This is the first time you feel let down by your own employer. All your hard work seem to go up on the smoke. You feel sick. You now hate your company.

On the way home, you stopped by at a mamak restaurant for a cup of teh tarik while pondering about your future.. Alone.
Suddenly you saw this new, shiny BMW 3 series being parked nearby. And to your surprise, it was Ah Kau. Yes, Ah Kau who used to sell newspapers nearby your old apartment. 'What happened to old Ah Kau?' You whisper to yourself.Ah Kau still recognizes you, and sit next to you, and shared his story.
To make it short, Ah Kau had accumulated his money from selling newspapers to open more stalls, one after another. Every new stall is run by his workers so that he focused on opening more and more stalls, which in turn give him more and more money.
Over the years, he had accumulated enough cash to open up new grocery store while at the same time buying more assets to grow his wealth. And his current wealth and success is achieved without any loanor financial help from banks and other financial institutions.There you go.
That's the story.

Before leaving, Ah Kau gives you a familiar quote,' Biasalah hidup. Kadang-kadang ok, kadang kadang tak ok.' He gives you a pat on the back and walks away.
In reality, if you're observant enough, there are a lot of Ah Kaus out there, that you will see every day and every where you go.
The names are different, but inside them is every character of Ah Kau. They might be Uncle Dorai,Ah Chong,Pak Abu, Makcik Gemuk, Pak Man nasi lemak or others. They look to be struggling on the surface, but if you look carefully and compare with your life, many of them are living with little or no liabilities. They ride an old kapcai bike. They live in an old rundown house. They don't have credit card to swipe. They wear a 10-year old shirt and short. No new, shiny Toyota Harrier. In short, their living means are far below than yours.
But what you don't realize is that many of them can save more money than yours, and over the years generate enough money to expand their business, or invest in properties. Their asset columns are much thicker than that of yours.
So the next time you see Ah Kaus, never look down on them, and never under- estimate them. Or else you're up for a harsh reality lesson.
In a nut shell, control your desire towards material, be a debt free person….generate more passive incomes…so that when one day, your employer, asks you to leave,...(TOUCH WOOD)
besides calculating how much compensation package is, you will have no worry how to lead your life further with the same quality, at least from material perspective..
So for those who thought of BMW, Harrier ( I am reminding myself), annual overseas vaccations, a wardrobe of designers' collections, & etc.
Monday, February 25, 2008
A glass of Water
"how heavy is this glass of water?"
Answers called out ranged from 20g to 500g.
The speaker replied, "The absolute weight doesn't matter. It depends on how long you try to hold it."

If I hold it for an hour, I'll have an ache in my right arm.
If I hold it for a day,you'll have to call an ambulance.
In each case, it's the same weight, but the longer I hold it,
He continued, "If we carry our burdens all the time, sooner or later, as the burden becomes increasingly heavy, we won't be able to carry on."
"As with the glass of water, you have to put it down for a while and rest
before holding it again. When we're refreshed, we can carry on with the burden."
So, before you return home this evening, put the burden of yours down.
Do not carry it home. You can pick it up tomorrow. Whatever burdens you're
carrying now, let them down for a moment if you can.
Relax; pick them up later after you've rested. Life is short. Enjoy it!
Have an awesome Monday, folks.
Sunday, February 24, 2008
My blog

One of my friend commented on the content of my blog.. saying that it has some kind of saddist tone. Well..I have no intentions what-so-ever to seek sympathy from you guys. As a matter of fact, I don't need one either. I'm pretty comfortable with my life right now.
Perhaps in the near future, I would post some "brighter tales" so that my blog doesn't sound like a "funeral". I will try to make my blog a more lively instead of the present sombre mood. Maybe, I would add a bit ingredients into it and blend it ...to create an atmosphere that would encourage more readers into my blog. How about food ? Maybe some other mushy-mushy stuffs like men-women relationships. Guess most people like to talk about it. What say you...? Any suggestions ?
This blog of mine plays a dual role....a personal diary of my daily activities as well as my punching bag whenever I'm down. I'm more interested in the everyday life kinda of thing as i dislike heavy stuffs such as politics or economics. These two sectors aren't my cup of tea.
As the election craze is just around the corner, maybe I should talk a lil about it. Oh yes, I something to share here. During my recent trip to KL, I visited Central Market which offers lots of artisan masterpieces. I had the chance to drop by at this stall selling cute T-shirts of various scripts. One of the scripts caught my attention.
It's actually a dialogue between two politicians of two countries
Politician A :- Where is your election coming about ?
Politician B :- Usually every morning, I would get pretty hard !!!!!
hahahahaha...
Hey no offence please. Just share some jokes only nia.
So are you ready to cast your vote..? Make sure you made the right choice and choose the right candidate.
Saturday, February 23, 2008
Malaysian Men
Family and wealth, not sex, the mark of a macho man
Malaysian men rate sex and romance lowly when it comes to masculinity. To them, manhood means having a good job, taking care of the family and ensuring enough money.
On the upside, Malaysian men are good providers with family as their priority.
Family and money – next to good jobs – are their top concerns and the main defining facets of their manhood – 24% of them rate having a good job as the most important thing in being a “man”.
Chartered psychologist with the Health Research Development Unit at the Faculty of Medicine, Universiti Malaya, Prof Dr Sarinah Low Abdullah, said this attitude is conditioned by society.
“Masculinity is very much influenced by socio-demographic parameters. A part of male personality is not to show emotions. For most men, their sense of self, sexual desire and behaviour are related to their sense of power, respect and success,”
http://thestar.com.my/news/story.asp?file=/2008/2/17/nation/20358566&sec=nation
I agreed with the survey. Malaysian men are more conservative in terms of expressing their feelings. In another words, Malaysian men are not romantic as they don't show their feelings nor emotions openly. But that doesn't mean they don't care.
Malaysian men are often being labelled as egoistic , male chauvinist....etc because men don't show their love transparently. I think Malaysian men should at least emulate their counterparts in Japan, Taiwan or Korea....coz they really do emphasize of proving their love openly.
However, things are gradually changing. For example, the recent RM54K wedding proposal by a young guy to his sweetheart says otherwise....a handful Msian guys dare to express their 'romantic nature' in public. But this kind of event rarely happen.....!
Any response...my dear friends pertaining to this issue..?


Friday, February 22, 2008
Love Ladder
Thursday, February 21, 2008
Chap Goh Meh

On this day, prayers are offered, sometimes on a grand scale, while families gather for a special dinner to wrap up the celebration.
The women would then cast oranges into the sea in the hope of finding a prospective suitor or husband. .........Make a wish before you throw the orange.

Wednesday, February 20, 2008
Four Days in KL

Now..back home....I'm just too tired and needed some rest badly. I often experienced "insomnia" when I'm out of town. I can't get used to the new environment. I need at least a month to do so..which is rediculous if I need to be away for short duration...like holiday or courses.I simply hated boarding at hotels...I just can't tolerate the bedsheets, carpeted flooring, narrow bathroom....etc. The enclosed environment with hardly any fresh air often drive me up the walls. . And usually, participants get to eat 5-6 times per day. Too much food with no form of movements @ exercise tend to make my tummy goes haywired. Food goes in but not the other way round....may cause lots of discomfort. (U know what I mean here...hahaha). Air cond isn't good for the skin as it dehydrate the body fluid..so gotta drink plenty of liquid daily.
OK....I'm ain't a health specialist..so don't wanna brag too much. hahahaha
Thru out my 4 days in the city..I only get to tour KL on the final day as our schedules were pretty tight. You see...we stayed at one hotel which sat right at the heart of KL...and I got the chance to see KLCC from my room each nite...but are unable to set foot there. hahahaha. I admired the beautiful concrete jungle over there..as I don't get to see them back in Pg. Therefore..I usually stay late till midnite starring at the window like a "jakun lady". My room mate whom is from another sch in PG was not as 'kampung' as me...coz she frequent to KL. As for me....5 years baru visit KL sekali.. hahahahahahaThose picturesque of night scenes of the Klang Valley was indeed breathtaking. Beautiful neon lights wrapping the high rise towers....and mind you..KL people never sleep. The streets are always busy even in the wee hours of the morning. Wonder why huh...? Everywhere is crowded. Traffic heavy. Everyone is moving at such a face pace....unlike Pg..where we could still take stroll along the beach admiring life that comes by.
But city dwellers..guess they don't get the chance to do so....! That's one thing that these people are lack off....they don't have the time to admire nature. PITIFUL huh..esp for young children....whom are forced to grow up in such environment. Guess these youngsters don't get the opportunity to see a real cow or buffalo, paddy fields or even shaddy fruit tress in their surroundings. Everywhere is full of buildings and pollutions. Perhaps some don't even see a coconut tree b4...except for those coconut fruit they could obtain from the shelves...!
So....living in the city has it's pros and cons....which ever lifestyle you choose.....depends on you...yourself. What say you...any comments..!!!!!
Saturday, February 16, 2008
Kuala Lumpur
Yours truly managed to reached the capital city after almost 4.5 hours of bus ride. Well the entire journey was pleasant. Arrived at KL city at ab 8.45 pm.....left Pg at 4.15 pm.
The driver manouver the bus perfectly well......quess he's an experienced kind. He's rather careful and controlled the steering well.
Will write more when I return.
Friday, February 15, 2008
Hello Kuala Lumpur

Thursday, February 14, 2008
Valentine's Day
Was someone to write her a card,
Telling her how special she was,
How she was the most beautiful person in the world,
Instead, that girl got nothing,
Hardly any candy from her friends,
No secret Valentine,
No romantic rose.
She watched silently
as other girls recieved presents,
Some from boyfriends,
Some from secret admirerers,
Some from friends.
But that girl,
She sat there,
Slowly eating her lunch,
Wishing for a card,
Something that would let her know
that people love her.
That night, she laid there,
On her bed, She cried silently,
Tears falling gracefully.

Someone send me the above poem....and I felt that it's incomplete. Perhaps..I shall add a few lines to it..
As drops of tears streamed down my cheek,
I know there's Him,
whom had been with me for many years.
I don't need those gifts of roses, cards nor candies
For I have him by my side.
He protects me, guides me gently;
He never leaves my side.
He is watchful, defensive of me;
He is passionate; trustworthy, too.
He loves me purely,
For his deep, dark eyes are kind.
He never fails to emerge when I needed him,
And here he's sworn to stay.
He is my guardian,
He lets no harm befall me.
He will hold me, not let me fall;
And best of all
Never will we say our good-byes.

Wednesday, February 13, 2008
Family Tree
This poem illustrates family in a very witty way.........
The family tree poem

I got married to a widow who was pretty as could be.
This widow had a grown-up daughter who had hair of red.
My father fell in love with her, and soon the two were wed.
This made my dad my son-in-law and changed my very life.
My daughter was my mother, for she was my father's wife.
To complicate the matters worse, although it brought me joy,
I soon became the father of a bouncing baby boy.
My little baby then became a brother-in-law to dad.
And so became my uncle, though it made me very sad.
For if he was my uncle, then that also made him brother
To the widow's grown-up daughter who, of course, was my stepmother.
Father's wife then had a son, who kept them on the run.
And he became my grandson, for he was my daughter's son.
My wife is now my mother's mother and it makes me blue.
Because, although she is my wife, she's my grandma too.
If my wife is my grandmother, then I am her grandchild.
And every time I think of it, it simply drives me wild.
For now I have become the strangest case you ever saw -
As the husband of my grandmother, I am my own grandpa!
Tuesday, February 12, 2008
Long day At Work...

I had a long day at work..today which finishes at 5pm. Therefore..my brain is blocked..and I'm unable to write.
Several of my friends suggested that I write about a typical day at school. Typical? Any teacher reading this is probably chuckling right now. Is there ever such a day? On a calm day, classes occur without incident; those days are few and far between. Therefore, I decided to approach this one from the perspective of “a day in the life” description.

My bed is so comfy and warm. I was quite comfortable in that cocoon position ! Got up....eventually. Showered, brushed teeth and decided what to wear for school...........beige blouse matched with checked brown skirt).

Arrived at 7.25am. Did some photocopying and prepared for my class of year 1 pupils. The day went by the usual way.....!
After school, time for our 2nd staff meeting which began at 2pm. None of us except my Guru Besar were happy about having to attend the meeting. You see..all of us were already "half dead" after teaching those lil monsters the whole morning.
Dragging ourselves into the meeting room with heavy footsteps.
We discussed on the various in-coming programmes planned by my school...ie PTA meeting, Annual Sports Day as well as the mid term exams. It was such a long meeting...as my GuruBesar loves to blah blah....squeezing into our already hectic day. The meeting adjourned at almost 4.30 pm. .....!

Phew.....what a day.
Monday, February 11, 2008
Kopi & Bread
Back To Work

Sunday, February 10, 2008
Men

Why Men Cheat, Why Men Are Unfaithful and What Women Can Do About A Cheating Man... !
I need the knowledge to understand why men cheat and if there is anything women can do to prevent her man from cheating !
Perhaps there must be a major communication break down between the two souls. Like what Dr. John Gray says "Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus" !
Saturday, February 9, 2008
Reunion Dinner Part 2

Fish - A must because it sounds like “surplus” in Chinese. There is also this Chinese saying, “May there be surpluses every year.” That is why fish is a must item on the menu.
Prawn - This seafood sounds like “laugh” in Chinese. So, it symbolizes happiness for the coming year.
Dried oyster - The pronounciation of oyster in Chinese is similar to “good things”. May the year be filled with good things happening.
Vegetables - This is normally a vegetarian dish topped with “fatt choy” which are black hair-like moss. In the Cantonese dialect, this food item sounds like “prosperity” and is commonly served.
Noodles - They have to be uncut to signify longevity.
Nian gao - This is actually a brownish steam cake made with rice flour and topped with red dates. Nian means year while gao means cake but gao also sounds like “high” in Chinese. So, this represents a “high” year ahead.
Reunion Dinner Part 1

But as one grows older, the significance of Chinese New year seems to be just like any ordinary day. The exciment and fun usually decreases. You no longer feel like wearing new clothes, neither do you enjoy lighting popping loud fire crackers in the neighbourhood....nor watching gaiety Lion dance troop.
When you no longer get the chance to receive "Hong Pao" after tying the knots....guess that's the reason why many adults don't enjoy CNY. Digging huge hole in one's wallet....forking out Hong Pao to the eagerly waiting children..!
However, ushering the Lunar New year still maintained it's importance in every Chinese lives.
Missing in Action...
