2nd chance

People in love sometimes fall out of love.  But sometimes, they fall back into love the second time.  The first love was lost and what it's like to fall in love the second time?

Love is sweeter the second time around.  But when the first was actually more of a heartache.  Can I really look forward to a second chance? Hmmmmmm....the future is not for us too see..[Doris Day~Que Sera Sera]

The first time a woman and a man fell in love is due to their natural attraction @ basic instinct.  But the second time, it's more of companionship.  A relationship is pretty tough to sustain and it doesn’t get easier the second time around.  A new relationship is synonymous to an ocean.  It returns in continuous waves and constantly leaving marks on the sand @ yielding for a variety of suprises.  

Getting back into ‘coupleship’ is a monumental task.  Been so much accustomed to a ‘one person routine, it is rather tough to share time and space with another living being.   Independence allows me to address my own needs.  Therefore, a new relationship spells some form of changes that I’m so used to.  Lucky me….this new relationship didn’t hinder the lifestyle that I’d developed over the years.  It represents positive additions….! Embarking a life membership union requires lots of understanding and some sacrifices.  Good communication is the keyword.  With an open mind and open communication…it’s spells “blissful’.

Thus far, Me and Him are doing great…and hopefully in future as well.  We do not really glued to each other like a leech.  I believed quality is more important that quantity.  No longer young lovebirds whom need to do all sorts of  lovey dovey things.  Nevertheless, we’re still romantic at heart..LOL.

We allowed each other lots of space and freedom.  My main priority is Ah Boy.  Him has accepted Ah Boy as his own…just like his flesh and blood.  This is one positive sign that this union is on the right track. Right now, am loving every single seconds of life...and it hasn't be so incredibly fabulous.  Hmmm...sounded like someone madly in love huh...!!!!    

It's never too late.....

People often said that life begins at 40 seems true  ....at least to me.  Life really is simple, yet me, myself insist on complicating it.  haha....I can say that the road of the past was a bumpy one, wasn't an easy one to wade thru.  But now...am glad to find my way to love. (wink wink)

Approaching the big 4 ol and I’m announcing to the entire world that I’m FALLING IN LOVE AGAIN !! (Embarrassed). Found my companionship and romance at the forth decade of my life. 

Now I do believe that there's life after loneliness.  Absolutely true.  And it's never too late or too old to fall in love.  Every one is entitled to happiness.   

Blessed

Some time ago, years ago... I felt a hole inside me.

But each day, I realized it’s filling up and the emptiness’ slowly fading away.
You existence makes my life complete.

Thank you, for being by my side all this while.

I love you ♥

2Love N BLove

Oh... that wonderful feeling loved and being loved.  The dizzying magical enchanted feeling That dizzying magical enchanted feeling – no proper semantic can describe. 

Wake up..Ann.  Wake up.  "Love is an active verb, it's an action not just merely feelings.  Love is a doing.  More often than not, I often treat love as something that befalls me, something that comes naturally.  Totally wrong. 

In actual fact, "Love is something that needed to be nurture, grow and develop.  By taking the actions of love that grows the feeling of love."

I liked this phrase.  It reflects my current condition, what I'm going thru and what I'm experiencing at this moment.  2Love N BLove...

Sunday Lunch

Enjoyed a threesome buffet lunch at Tao Restaurant (Autocity) on Sunday afternoon.  Sort of celebrating Ah Boy's bday...

Admit that it’s pretty unhealthy to eat in such a-way. Stuffing food into one’s body as if it was our last meal. (Head shaking)..hmmm pretty bad. Bad act….very unhealthy especially at my age now !!  My tummy felt bloated the entire day and till now I’m still feeling the fullness.  Gotta visit Guardian for a bottle of ENO....to relieve the discomfort.  Just made myself a glass of lime juice (limau nipis tanpa gula). 

Hmmmm....Over eating may kills. But ‘once in a blue moon’…tidak apa la.

So, back to the food story… we had wide range of foods to choose from. Authentic Japanese cuisine. A variety to pick from the menu …just order and eat.  Eat as much as your stomach could accomodate...!  Gile makan. 

The cold cuts like sashimi are my favourite. The fresh thin raw slices of salmon, tuna, squid,mackerel..oh simply irresistible. 

Not forgetting the Scallop, Abalone…yummy

Grilled Salmon teriyaki (Ah Boy’s fav)..just to name a few

And a whole load more..a long list to mention here.
Check this out.   
http://www.tao-cuisine.com/menu.php

Luckily all the dishes were served in small portion at every single order. Unlimited order, eat till the stomach can witstand !!! The waiters/waitresses were excellent in service…orders were prompt and we didn’t wait for long for our orders to arrive. Thumb ups to the staffs.

Didn’t have time for photographing coz too engrossed with the makan-ing.  Only realised my poor camera after savouring all the goodies..... Look at the messy table after our eating spree......It's me, Ah Boy and Him.