Men

Why Men Cheat, Why Men Are Unfaithful and What Women Can Do About A Cheating Man... !

One of the most painful experiences you'll go through in life is finding out that you've a Cheating Man.

Especially, if the one you strongly care about or deeply love. Your womanly instincts will try to warn you he’s cheating, "Hey! You've a cheating man," but you'll not listen.

The man will tell many lies but you'll not catch him because you are not paying attention! Believe it or not, None of that is important!

The most important thing is to know why men cheat. Specifically, why was your man unfaithful? Until you get the answers you want; the thoughts of your man cheating will eat you alive every second of the day!

Even if you catch your man cheating and questioned him extensively, you still won't know why he strayed ! He will tell you what you want to hear and what he wants you to know! Do you want to spend days, weeks, months and maybe years trying to figure out the answer?

More often than not...the solution is....SEPARATIONS.

I need the knowledge to understand why men cheat and if there is anything women can do to prevent her man from cheating !
Perhaps there must be a major communication break down between the two souls. Like what Dr. John Gray says "Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus" !

Anyone can respond to this ?

Reunion Dinner Part 2

It is a tradition for family members from near and far to gather for the reunion dinner on the eve of Chinese New Year. This is an important event as it signifies strong family ties. A sumptuous dinner was spread for all present. When it comes to typical food eaten during the reunion dinner, this is where it gets interesting......The Chinese always like all things symbolic with good meaning.

Fish - A must because it sounds like “surplus” in Chinese. There is also this Chinese saying, “May there be surpluses every year.” That is why fish is a must item on the menu.

Prawn - This seafood sounds like “laugh” in Chinese. So, it symbolizes happiness for the coming year.

Dried oyster - The pronounciation of oyster in Chinese is similar to “good things”. May the year be filled with good things happening.

Vegetables - This is normally a vegetarian dish topped with “fatt choy” which are black hair-like moss. In the Cantonese dialect, this food item sounds like “prosperity” and is commonly served.

Noodles - They have to be uncut to signify longevity.

Nian gao - This is actually a brownish steam cake made with rice flour and topped with red dates. Nian means year while gao means cake but gao also sounds like “high” in Chinese. So, this represents a “high” year ahead.

Reunion Dinner Part 1

I guess....one of the best part of Chinese New Year is probably the REUNION DINNER.... Not only you get to eat delicious home cooked food ....prepared kampung style. You can also get together with the other family members exchanging small talks as well as share hot gossips...etc.

But as one grows older, the significance of Chinese New year seems to be just like any ordinary day. The exciment and fun usually decreases. You no longer feel like wearing new clothes, neither do you enjoy lighting popping loud fire crackers in the neighbourhood....nor watching gaiety Lion dance troop.

When you no longer get the chance to receive "Hong Pao" after tying the knots....guess that's the reason why many adults don't enjoy CNY. Digging huge hole in one's wallet....forking out Hong Pao to the eagerly waiting children..!

However, ushering the Lunar New year still maintained it's importance in every Chinese lives.

Missing in Action...

I apologise from the bottom of my heart....for missing in action.

Looks like I haven't post for about a month....since Xmas.

Well..you see, ever since school reopens, I was pretty tied up with my work. Normal thing la for a teacher at the beginning of the year....update report, fill up endless forms, registration books, collecting fees, getting to know new pupils.....and the list goes on.

In addition to my school load, I too have my studies to look upon. I resumed my OUM studies with my 3rd Semester which commenced in January. On my 1st tutorial (13/01), I was given my assignment questions.....3 assignments to be precise.

This semester, I'll be taking 3 papers. HBEL 1203 - Language Description, HBHE 1203 - Pedogogi Pendidikan Kesihatan and HBME 1203 - Pendidikan Moral 1 - Tahun 1.

My 3 previous papers were HBEL 1103 Introduction to English Language Education , HBHE 1102 - Pengenalan Pendidikan Kesihatan & HBME 1103 - Pengenalan Pendidikan Moral.

Aiyoyo.....with CNY just around the corner...macam-macam dancing in my head.

You see...I had been EXTREMELY BUSY the past few weeks, but now, it's time to relax! I got 4 days break for CNY.....therefore I took this golden opportunity on this golden Rat year.....to update my blog. I know you all misses me too...hehehe

Hence I'm here writing something about CNY. Guess that's the most suitable topic for this blog right now. Don't you think so ?

May the Year of the Golden RAT brings good luck, health,fortune and all that you desire......

"Kiong Hee Huat Chai.....Ni Ni Soon Soon Lei Lei"